How to Make Sense of This Blog: Because I’m Complex!

I started this blog in January 2015 while I was on bed rest and very pregnant with my sun (spelling intentional) Awesome Amari…my rainbow baby!

It was an interesting (to say the least) time in my life for sooo many reasons.  So much had changed.  So much was changing.  And, there was so much more I wanted to change.


I started this blog with the intention of it being an outlet-a place where I could empty my thoughts, and ultimately heal myself particularly from the illness of giving a fuck about others’ opinions about me.

It’s been through some changes (just like I have), but has since evolved into being a blog FOR YOU, but all about ME –Sunshine Cummings, The Real Bossmom. 

You’ll definitely get the best of both worlds, because not only will you get to be all up in my business, but unlike most personal blogs where you think to yourself (about the blogger) “Annnd, you are who again?,” and could give 2 shits about their family vacation to Disney World (that was a mouthful, but you get what I’m saying)…

…you’ll actually learn some shit, be entertained, and if you choose to apply what you learn…Change Your Life.

Follow along…if you can keep up!

*List of categories and what they’re all about*

  • Artist-All things dance and blogging, from tips and how-to’s to general information, because I’m a dancer and I love to write.
  • Creator-I create my life, and so do you!Posts in this category are all about the Law of Attraction, how I use/have used it in my life, and how you can use it too to manifest every and anything you desire, because Anything is Possible!
  • Boss-I’m a Bossmom, entrepreneur, and the badass founder of SnapBack Co.Some folks are ambitious when it comes to moving up in a company, or at a job.That ain’t me!If it’s not you either then posts in this category would be of interest to you as I share my journey of building a global brand, along with tips, tools, and resources that I find useful.
  • Healer-This is my gift!  It’s what I do.  It’s why I chose to come to Earth and be born.For many years I thought I wanted to be a medical doctor, or naturopath, or herbalist, etc. I spent a shitload of time and money studying and learning about chakras, herbs, crystals, midwifery/natural birth, homeopathy, yoga, reflexology, meditation, aromatherapy…you name it!I eventually had to take several seats, step back, and be honest with myself about the fact that I didn’t come here to be a damn compulsive student, and that my gift of healing is unconventional…like me.Posts in this category are all about my journey as a healer, as well as info about healing in several “alternative” modalities.
  • Lover-The juicy stuff!  The things the nosy people in my life wanna know all about, but won’t dare ask.I’m a married woman, yes!  And, I also identify as polyamorous, or should I say non-monogamous meaning I am open to, and desire, intimate relationships with more than just my husband…AND, I am open to him being in intimate relationships with others as well (key word OPEN…not enthused lol).Polyamory is all about the responsible and honest practice of non-monogamy, not that cheating shit most people are familiar with.Posts in these categories will be really real as I share about intimacy in my life and marriage!
  • MILF (Mom in love with freedom)-I’m a free spirit, end of story period.I strongly value freedom, acceptance, freedom of choice, freedom of speech, and freedom of expression.Posts in this category are all about my free spirtedness and my journey of self-acceptance.
  • Mother– I’m a new mom and bonus mom.Being/becoming both have posed major challenges for me prior to, during, and after.Posts in this category are about all things related to mothering (tips, tricks, reviews, motivation, etc.), my ever-evolving journey as a mom, overcoming the loss of 2 babies, overcoming confidence/body image issues postpartum, postpartum weight loss, breastfeeding, and about co-parenting, step-parenting, and attachment parenting.
  • MYLF (Mom You’d Like to F&%*)- All things postpartum fitness/weight loss related as I bring sexy back, and help other moms do the same.
  • Wife-All about married life, and homemaking!



Why You Should Read This Blog Period!

Welcome to the “Boss Mom After-Baby Success ” Blog!

By now you know what the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog is all about (the tagline explains it pretty well), so I have no intention of going into detail about all that,


…what you may not be clear on is why you should be here reading this blog, and why you should bookmark/follow the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog now, in order to become a regular reader of it.

So, that’s what I’m going to share with you here in this post.

Why the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog Was Created

The main reason I created the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog was to document and keep track of my journey of healing several areas of my life, and of sharing my process of learning and tapping into my purpose as a healer, mom, and entrepreneur.

In this blog I share my challenges and successes of becoming a biological mother (including two 2nd trimester miscarriages), of raising 2 bonus (aka “step”) children with my previously married husband, of dealing with his ex-wife and her antics, of opening my marriage, and most importantly, of embracing all of who I am (healer, sapiosexual, polyamorous woman, Goddess, nudist, eleutheromaniac, deliberate creator, entrepreneur etc.), and giving the middle finger to anyone who has an opinion about any of it :-).  Thus…


My secondary reason for creating this blog, is to give back and share what I’ve learned along the way (the secrets and solutions).  I wish there was a blog out like this when I was attempting to build a business and navigate conception and pregnancy in addition to raising two children.

It didn’t exist for me, but now it does for you!

Reasons Why You Should Read the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog

1. Quite frankly, if you like a good mind fuck, (*waves to my fellow sapiosexuals*) you should bookmark/follow this blog right NOW.

The Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog speaks the language of Sapiosexuals.

I did mention I was a sapiosexual right?!  Yep, I did.

Well, I absolutely love a good mind fuck, especially when it comes in the form of written words.  I love to be the recipient as well as the giver of a good mind fuck, so that’s what you’ll get when you read most of my posts.

I love playing with words…and people 😉

2. If you know you’re not living up to your full potential as a mother and/or entrepreneur, whether it’s because you’re not sure why you’re here, or because you’re too paralyzed by what others think of you…bookmark/follow this blog right NOW.

I know that through my journey of freeing myself from the opinions of others, you too will be inspired into action to do the same.

I also know that the methods I use to tap into my purpose will prove useful to you if you are struggling to determine your gift, your passions, or your purpose in life.

They’re pretty phenomenal and life-changing if I do say so myself.

3. If you’re dealing with any issues surrounding motherhood, don’t even think twice…just bookmark or follow this blog NOW!

Did I mention that I’ve been a student of midwifery and natural/home birth for many years now?!  Nope, I sure didn’t.  Well I have been for the past 8 years (long journey…I know).

Not only do I absolutely love discussing pregnancy and birth, I’ve had many challenges surrounding both of these life events (the Universe sure has an interesting way of testing us).

I struggled with infertility for 18 months before I finally got pregnant for the first time.  I had a horrible first pregnancy that resulted in premature birth at 22 weeks of pregnancy.  After that pregnancy, fertility has never been an issue again, and I went on to have yet another premature birth at exactly 22 weeks of pregnancy as well (in less than a year).  Neither of those babies survived.

Meanwhile, here I am helping my husband raise his two beautiful children from a previous marriage while dealing with bullshit from their mother, and all the while longing to be a mother myself, and to experience what I’ve helped and coached so many other moms to do…have healthy pregnancies and natural births on their terms.

That’s all discussed here on the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog.

4. If you are a cheater, have ever cheated, plan to cheat, have ever been cheated on, struggle with issues of jealousy/trust/possessiveness, are in love with more than one person, and/or not happy in your current relationship/marriage…

…it is non-negotiable that you bookmark/follow the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog, right this second.

I’ll wait!

At the time of me writing this very post, I have been married a whopping 5 months.  Let’s just say there was no honeymoon phase.

Just before and shortly after getting married, my husband and I started having talks about opening our relationship and eventually our marriage.

They’ve never been easy, and opening up has proved even more challenging; however, we are committed to living this way, because we know that by nature we are not monogamous beings, and don’t care to force ourselves to live in a way that society thinks is best for us.

We believe that being open and honest with each other, and ourselves, is what’s best for us.

My posts about this journey are unbelievable, sometimes hot & steamy, and most times about me taking responsibility for the creation of my life and all of my manifestations.

Hard pill to swallow.

You will no doubt learn how to heal your life and relationships from the posts on this subject, which deal a lot with the Law of Attraction as well (super important to your success as a Boss Mom).

5. If you are considered, or consider yourself weird, strange, unconventional, alternative, all over the place, a free-spirit, etc., you should follow/bookmark this blog, because I’m all those things and more, and to be honest, you never know what you’ll get from reading my posts…because you never know what you’ll get from me!

So go ahead… bookmark/follow the Boss Mom After-Baby Success Blog NOW.

By now, you should have bookmarked and/or followed this blog, so you’ll never ever miss a post.

If not, well…

…it’s probably not for you, and that’s okay.

To my now regular readers…welcome and thanks!

Make sure to leave your questions/comments on any posts you see fit and share away to your friends on social media.

Contact me privately if you’d like to leave a raving review or to request a post on a particular topic.

Yours Truly,
Sunshine Cummings 

Sunshine Boss Mom

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